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You Are Not Alone

  • Nick Axtell
  • Sep 21, 2024
  • 2 min read

Updated: Oct 6, 2024

A decline in mental wellbeing can often result in feeling isolated, leading to the belief that no one else will understand how we feel. Our minds can also play tricks on us, making us feel like our feelings are not valid, or that we shouldn’t feel the way we do. However, it is important to acknowledge that you are not alone in feeling like this.


Breaking the Isolation

The first step towards challenging the feeling of isolation begins with acknowledging that the feelings being experienced are completely valid and significant. It is completely normal to feel apprehensive about opening up, as the stigma of judgment or misunderstanding still exists for many, especially when you've not experienced feelings or symptoms like this in the past. It is so important to know there are people who are willing to listen, understand, and support you on your path to healing.


A rickety pier reaching out in to calm water

Embracing Vulnerability as a Strength

Vulnerability can be seen to hold negative connotations - often seen as the antithesis to what it means to be strong and resilient. Actually the opposite is true. By acknowledging our thoughts and our feelings, we can build the foundations for a stronger, more resilient self. Within CBT we often look at thoughts and consider if they are true, or helpful, then reframe them with an alternative perspective. If we reframe our thoughts, vulnerability can be considered a source of immense strength and courage leading to genuine connections and fostering a sense of empowerment. It can also role model behaviours helping others to seek support and normalise the conversation about mental health.


Finding Your Support Network

Seeking support isn't a sign of weakness; in fact it is quite the opposite. Whether you chose professional support such as CBT, support groups, or speaking to a friend or family member, reaching out can be the turning point in your recovery. Remember, you are worthy of compassion, understanding, and support.


Nurturing Mental Wellbeing

Self-care also plays a crucial role in maintaining mental wellbeing. Engaging in activities that bring you joy and meaning such as practicing mindfulness, maintaining a balanced diet, journaling, and gentle exercise can all have a positive impact on mental wellbeing. Small steps towards self-care can be such an important part of how you perceive and navigate the challenges you face.


Self-Care Practices

Your Journey Towards Healing

Remember, your journey towards mental health support and recovery is unique, and it's essential to prioritise your wellbeing unapologetically. By taking that brave first step to reach out you are not only advocating for yourself but also role modelling for others to embark on their journey too. Embrace the support and resources available to you and know that, with the right support and self-care, brighter days lie ahead.

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